In this episode, you will hear:
- How Tina became interested in this line of work
- Looking back at abstinence-only teachings
- How couples struggle holding out on sex until after marriage
- Understanding the historical context around the issue of sex and religion
- Remaining in your religion whilst having a healthy sex life
- Learning to appreciate your body
- How to begin the process of not being ashamed of wanting to have sex

Dr. Moali

Sexology Podcast

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How To Overcome Religious Shame with Dr. Tina

The issues that make monogamous dating daunting for people of color—shaming and exclusion by white partners, being fetishized, having realities of everyday racism ignored—occur in polyamorous relationships too, and trying “not to see race” only makes it worse. To make polyamorous communities inclusive, we must all acknowledge our part in perpetuating racism and listen to people of color. Love's Not Color Blind puts forward the framework—through research, anecdotal testimony, and analogy—for understanding, identifying, and confronting racism within polyamorous communities.

Kevin Patterson

Amazon

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Love's Not Color Blind

Why does society have difficulty discussing sexualities? Where does fear of Black sexualities emerge and how is it manifested? How can varied experiences of Black females and males who are lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender (LGBT), or straight help inform dialogue and academic inquiry?
From questioning forces that have constrained sexual choices to examining how Blacks have forged healthy sexual identities in an oppressive environment, Black Sexualities acknowledges the diversity of the Black experience and the shared legacy of racism. Contributors seek resolution to Blacks' understanding of their lives as sexual beings through stories of empowerment, healing, self-awareness, victories, and other historic and contemporary life-course panoramas and provide practical information to foster more culturally relative research, tolerance, and acceptance.

Juan Battle (Editor), Sandra L. Barnes (Editor)

Amazon

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Black Sexualities: Probing Powers, Passions, Practices, and Policies

Humans are a varied and divergent bunch with all manner of beliefs, morals, and bodies. Systems of oppression thrive off our inability to make peace with difference and injure the relationship we have with our own bodies.

The Body Is Not an Apology offers radical self-love as the balm to heal the wounds inflicted by these violent systems. World-renowned activist and poet Sonya Renee Taylor invites us to reconnect with the radical origins of our minds and bodies and celebrate our collective, enduring strength. As we awaken to our own indoctrinated body shame, we feel inspired to awaken others and to interrupt the systems that perpetuate body shame and oppression against all bodies. When we act from this truth on a global scale, we usher in the transformative opportunity of radical self-love, which is the opportunity for a more just, equitable, and compassionate world--for us all.

Sonya Renee Taylor

Amazon

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The Body is Not An Apology: The Power of Radical Self-Love

An excellent resource for helping children learn the basic concepts of illness and various age-appropriate ways of coping with it.

Marge Heegaard

Amazon

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When Someone Has a Very Serious Illness: Children Can Learn to Cope with Loss and Change

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